Saturday, 12 September 2015

La Dolce Vita

I know it has been a very long time, since my last blog but as many of you know the reason why! Three little words "La Dolce Vita" (life is sweet, or the sweet life, whichever way you want to translate it!

I am reflecting on the past few years and what has come about and I am eternally grateful :) I remember sitting at the dining room table with Dad and we were going through the weekend paper, travel section as we always did, it was a part of the Saturday ritual, he would go straight to the Obituaries, Deaths to see if any of his mates had died, he would pull out all the (crap, he called it!) new houses and real estate and fashion in the middle of the paper, then he would start reading the paper from the back. The sport was always on the back and his beloved Eagles were his pride and joy, (when they were winning of course!) then when we had discovered none of his friends had passed, we would get onto the travel section. He loved seeing where the West would take you each week, he said it was the only travelling that he would ever get to do. Not like these youngen's (referring to his niece's, but he was always so very proud of them achieving all the travel experience at such a young age. I think deep down, Dad would really loved to travel, he said if he had been 20 yrs younger even, so e of these train trips and cruises would have been wonderful. That leads me to when we both discovered this amazing River Cruise that started in Budapest and ended in Rome, it travelled all around the Coast of Italy. I was so keen to go even then, got really excited, started planning my trip, what it would cost and when it came down to booking it online, no matter what I did, I couldn't book that particular cruise, it had disappeared off the screen!

It was after several months of disappointment of not making this cruise, that one of my dear friend's Viv (who is an old school friend, we have always been the best of buddies) mentioned to me, about going to Uk, she managed to get this special visa, which allowed you to go work in the UK for five years. Unfortunately Viv was well organised before me, money wise etc, so I wasn't able to go with her when she was ready, soi started saving like mad and then applied for a visa, which I got quite quickly, then it all happened so fast! Suddenly I was leaving work, which I loved, on a plane to the UK to explore new horizons. Little did I know at the time, that in 2 1/2 years I would eventually get to see Italy :)

In another few weeks, it will be a year since I started in the Funeral business over here in Cranmore, Shepton Mallet and a year since I first laid eyes on a special Italian man who came over from our other office, who had the biggest smile and sparkle in his eyes. I didn't even know at that stage if he was married, or single, infact I wasn't even looking, as most of you know, it's been years for me! Who would have guessed that a year later, we would actually be living together :) yes it's official, I moved in during August, just prior to us taking our first holiday to Italy together!

Our holiday was a short stay in Italy, we basically went to meet family (famiglia in Italian) which were based In Caiazzo, which is North of Naples and Caserta. It is where Giacomo is from and we stayed with Rosa (his sister and brother-in-law Raffaele.

Giacomo with his younger sister Rosa :)

Giacomo, his nephew Enzo and his dad Raffaele

Serena and Giovanna :)

Giacomo's cousin Immacolata offering us a Limoncello or is that a Sambucca? It was lovely to meet all his cousins and family, I felt very welcomed, even if Italian was their first language and they struggled with their English as much as I struggled with my Italian, we managed warm hugs and smiles :)

The farmhouse which Enzo is renovating, which I don't have too many pics of, is very spacious and big enough for all the family. I absolutely fell in love with Ciaizzo and all the Italian countryside, it was so beautiful, the only negative and that didn't sway me too much from not wanting to go back, was that it was like Australia. extremely hot! Rosa makes everything, doesn't waste anything (mum if your listening up there, she's your kind of woman!) Rosa and her hubby both very hard workers and both retired, but busy looking after gardens and animals, making cheese, having their own cows, hens, garden, totally living off the land. The wine is natural :) yay I get to have red wine without all the preservatives!
 
Some of the boarders :)

 

Part of the local square in Caiazzo

Everyone stops for a chat, who is this handsome man :)

An original Oil press. (Frantoio)

 

A bit blurred, but so pretty!

 

 

Maria-Louisa (Giac's niece's new home, which is next door to her sister Gina's, gorgeous part of the country, fruit trees and olive trees everywhere!
Giacomo and his Niece Maria-Louisa
 

 

Lita you would love all these olive trees, all 160 of them! They produce olive oil and sell it.

OMG, I fell in love with these! Red prickly pear :) as you can see below, they require careful handling! Thankyou so much Massimo and Gina for preparing them and also Rosa for the lovely orange variety :) I miss the taste of these already, can't wait to have them again :)

 

 

Under the Lemon trees and Kiwi fruit.

 

Top left hand window was Giacomo's school room.

 

 

 

The local church

Buffalo mozzarella :)
These are just some of meals at Maria-Louisa's, I didn't take pics of Rosa's wonderful meals :( I am sorry now that I didn't have my phone at the ready. I want recipes!
 

We had such a wonderful week away, we didn't waste much time, Monday we went off to the Amalfi Coast, Tuesday we went to Pompeii, Wed we spent time in Caiazzo with family and Thusday we went to Napoli (Naples) and Friday we went to Caserta to the royal palace.


Due to the large number of photo's, I may have to post a few separate blogs of each place :) this one was mostly of Caiazzo and family.

I hope you get a feel of what it was like to be in Italy, by going us xxxx

 

Tuesday, 19 May 2015

More adventures :)

Hello to all my fabulous family and friends :) What a life I am leading! I apologise for the lack of posts of late, I am a tad distracted at the moment, but when I can, I will try and fill you all in on my news.

My weekends are now filled with much love and joy, it's such a wonderful change for me, I must say! I of course have always had the love of my beautiful children Robert and Helen ( at least in life I got one thing right, having given birth to two of the most beautiful souls that have given me so much love and I wouldn't have wanted to change that in any way, (you both make your mumma so proud) my family and beautiful friends, but the one thing that I always dreamt of was having the love of a man, whom I could share my life with, someone who would treat me with respect, love me for me, someone who would make me laugh and an added bonus someone who loves life and dancing, yes I said dancing, as much as me! Giacomo where have you been all my life?

When I thought all of my chances of love had passed me by, I filled my life with new adventures, seeking out new places, meeting new people, going places that I had never been before, getting on with my lot, so to speak, I was happy and content in my own way, but when I did see couples in love around me I would feel a pain in my heart, I guess being hopeful that my beloved man would find me, no matter how big the world is, he would "know" where to find me. When I finally trusted and had faith, that all was well in my world and if I was meant to be with a wonderful man, he would find me, not the other way around, I wasn't going "hunting",

Then it happened one day at my work, when I met a crew from the other office, a gentle man smiled at me and I immediately felt this electricity surge through me, he gave me the traditional European kiss on both cheeks, I found myself wanting to pretend to miss and plant a bug kiss on his lips lol oh dear, whatever is the matter with you Alana? I then walked away feeling awkward, but managed to smile a lot and make conversation, so I must have seemed ok.

Our next meeting was the "Christmas" work function. I had been working for a couple of months now, but hadn't seen him since. I was quite excited about going to the event anyway, to meet all the staff properly and their other halves :). Started taking photos around the table, half way through the night, I decided it was a way of moving around and saying hello to everyone. Walked over to the other table and I was struck my lightening! Lol OMG Giac was there, all dressed up, looked so smart, I didn't even know if he was married at this stage, I was introduced to his "friend" hmmmm what did that mean exactly I could hear myself saying in my mind. I got someone at the table to take a pic of me, little did Giac know he was in the pic :)

We were pretty cute together then even when we weren't officially together :)
A couple of weeks ago, we went to Cricket St Thomas for a day trip, we initially though there was a zoo still there, but apparently the animals have been gone since 2009, but the drive in the country with my darling was well worth it, beautiful day, great weather, spring flowers blooming everywhere! We had a big walk around two lakes that back onto the hotel at Cricket St Thomas. Here are some of the pics, also the manor house is where they Produced the film "To The Manor Born" for all those fans back home :)
Cute lambs awwww xxxx
Rude to point, but in this instance Giac was pointing at his darling (me :)
The Manor House in "To The Manor Born"
It was so beautiful around these lakes, there were seats where you could sit, meditate if you felt like it!
We found all sorts of wildlife down by the water, lots of pheasants calling to each other, such dopey birds, but the males are beautiful to look at!
It's now the following weekend, both Giac and I had to forego our beloved Friday night dance as tomorrow he takes off on the Mendip Rally in his beautiful 1965 S Type Jaguar, along with his grandson Olivet as Navigator. ( I can't go with him this time, Oliver had been excited for some time about going, so I was delegated photographer when they got back to the Wells Cathedral at 2.30pm. There were over 100 cars, I didn't take pics of them all, but ones that took my fancy!

Get ready, start your engines, go! Giac and Oliver leaving at the start of the Rally run.
One pic for Inga and Robbie :)
 

 
Oh dear, some one is in trouble!
This reminded me of The Hillbillies!
 

One of my fave's Austin Healey I think? Rob you will correct me if Mum is wrong, I know!

Loved this Porsche too :)

 

E Type Jaguar

I have to say that this was the best car :) as it belongs to my darling Giacomo xxxx

Hi Oliver, looking very cool there :)

Well done Giacomo and Oliver!

Congratulations for a great job xx

I had to have a pic too!

 
I want this one!
 

 

Or this one!

Rob, these are for you :) there were a couple of Plus + 4 and a couple of plus +8 Morgan's.

Going Back to the Future Giac?

 

At the end of the day, Giac's lovely family came to see him. I only managed to get this photo, as my camera battery was too low. We were leaving and his other beautiful daughter arrived with her her daughter, they had rushed from swimming, just in time to have a bit of a look around, I think by this time Giac was really tired after the long drive, so we headed home and revived with a coffee and it was an early night for him and I travelled on home to Westbury for an early night as work in the morning!

I hope you all have a fabulous week and I will be posting another post very soon. We have another bank holiday coming up, Giacomom has family over from Italy, so lots happening, so until next time, I send lots of love to you all xxxxxxx